I decided to go with phpbb, since I definately have the space (and hopefully bandwidth!) right on
www.theneitherworld.com, and seeing as I have a vBulletin on fosters-home.com, which runs on an identical server, I definately have the sql and php abilities. Phpbb is popular and has lots of functions, I'm not sure its as slick as vBulletin (and I hear it isn't quite as easy to configure/customise) but it should be more than adequate at least until such mythical time as we actually get hundreds of members, lol.

Anyways technically we're already using phpbb, its just hosted on editboards and not on theneitherworld.com. If I *can* host it myself I may as well.
So I'm working on installing the software now. Y'all can go ahead and keep posting as you wish here, I will transfer the posts later.